One of the most common questions I’m asked—whether by clients, trainees, or friends—is, “What is it really like to sit in the therapist’s chair?”
The honest answer? It’s a privilege. A quiet, sacred kind of privilege.
From my side of the chair, I witness courage every day. I see people show up in their messiness, their uncertainty, their pain—and still, they keep going. I sit with grief that feels unbearable, stories that have never been told out loud, and moments of joy that surprise both of us. I hold space for the parts people often hide from the world… and sometimes even from themselves.
Listening is more than hearing words. It’s paying attention to the silences, the hesitations, the shift in posture. It’s noticing what’s unsaid just as much as what is shared. Listening, in therapy, is an active process of being fully present—not fixing, not judging, not rushing to solve. Just being with someone in their experience.
Sometimes I think people assume therapists have all the answers. We don’t. But what we offer is presence—a space where someone can feel heard, seen, and valued exactly as they are. And often, that’s where healing begins.
Therapy isn’t always about big breakthroughs. More often, it’s the gentle, consistent noticing:
“I hear you.”
“That makes sense.”
“You matter here.”
From my side of the chair, I see the quiet power of listening. It softens walls, it steadies storms, and it reminds us that we are all deeply human—messy, complicated, worthy of compassion.
Thank you for letting me share these reflections. And if you take anything from this post, I hope it’s this: You deserve to be listened to, too.
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